SUSTAINING A RELATIONSHIP: A captivating Write up

SUSTAINING A RELATIONSHIP: A captivating Write up

 
         Betty, a pretty young lady is found sitting absent-mindedly, lost in thought, on a wooden chair in her rented apartment thinking about her relationships of the past two years, she has not been able to keep any of the man she dated over the couple of years. No one would  believe she could be again found in such condition about 10months back  when she met Dan, a very rich, handsome and nice man at a wedding ceremony of a friend,they hooked up and started going out together. Phew! she has found her dream man, the love of her life because Dan was all over her, he gave her everything she asked for,he's handsome and rich, he was just everything a woman would ever think of having and she also reciprocated by giving him all he wanted from her too, they were two love birds. Deep inside her she has reached her destination, no more searching for spouse.  
        The bomb banged on the day Betty caught Dan cheating on her,  although she has been observing this for some weeks when Dan started making secret calls and sometimes snubs her but it was clearly revealed to her on this faithful day when Dan received a message on is phone, unfortunately, he wasn't there to open the message, Betty opened it and the cat was let out of the bag, it was a love message, she was shocked, Dan has being having a secret affairs with another lady 5 months after they met, she couldn't believe her sights, was she dreaming? no! it was real. Dan eventually came in and Betty confronted him, but rather than Dan beg her, he took it up as an offence for opening his message which Betty also didn't take it lightly with him, it led to a misunderstanding between the two, after some times of exchanging words and ignoring each other , they settled it amicably  but their relationship wasn't as sweet as before, Dan started putting up attitudes for Betty, giving complaints on  everything she does, framing up excuses for not calling her and not picking her calls, he would beat her, call her names, but won't stop pleasing him by giving him sex, dressing more attractively and the likes. All these was to no avail. They later broke up.
         Betty is here thinking of how she could manage a man or is there anything wrong with her? She's confused. She doesn't understand the fact that beauty and appearance only attracts a man, but attitude sustains. Never force yourself to a man who beats you, he doesn't worth to be your man. Sex also doesn't  sustain a relationship, giving him your body doesn't guarantee his stay but :
  - Can you support him spiritually?
  -Can you support him physically?
  -How about mentally?
All you do is demand money for marterial things and make him spend unnecessarily.
Have you ever sat him down, and you help him plan about his future?  Are you someone he can confide in during state of dilemma seeking advice from? These are the things Betty does not possess that made her lose her man.
     Rather than jumping from one man to another, looking for Mr. Right. Try to be a woman of great virtue.Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man.

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